Safety & anonymity
Your discretion isn't an option — it's the core of the product. Here's how we protect both sides.
Key facts
- Buyers: 18+ self-declared, no ID needed.
- Sellers: women and men, ID-verified once by a specialist provider (the ID is never shown to buyers), selling under a pseudonym.
- Shipping: tracked, within 72 hours, in discreet packaging. Weared guarantee: refunded if the seller doesn’t ship, ships without tracking, or the item doesn’t match the listing.
Under a pseudonym
Across the site, you exist only under your pseudonym, and nobody sees your email. One exception: with home delivery, the seller sees your name and address on the label.
Locker or home
In bitcoin, in Switzerland, the parcel can go to a My Post 24 locker, addressed to a code plus your Swiss Post User-ID: neither your name nor your home address. By card, it always goes to your home, and the seller sees the name and address on the label.
Two ways to pay
By card, Apple Pay or Google Pay: Weared collects on Stripe's secure page (we never see your card) and passes the seller her share. In bitcoin (Lightning): you pay the seller directly, or Weared on a guaranteed purchase — always the case without an account. Either way: mandatory tracking number, 18+ declaration and mediation if a dispute arises.
Bank-statement discretion
In bitcoin, no 'Weared' line on your statement. By card, a descriptor that does not say what you bought: neither the item nor the seller's name.
Everything is settled here
The internal messaging is all you need to agree on everything, without giving out contact details.
Adult community, verified sellers
Every seller has her identity and age (18+) verified before any sale; every buyer declares they are 18 or over at sign-up. Content involving minors, non-consensual or illegal material: zero tolerance, immediate reporting.
